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Warning Signs You Might Be Dating a Relationship Loser

So, you’ve been seeing this guy and you’re getting some weird vibes. You’re not sure if he’s a keeper or not, and you’ve had so many duds lately you don’t trust your own judgement.

Let me help you out here. I’m going to use the term “Relationship Loser” to describe anyone who is unwilling or unable to be in a healthy relationship. Maybe they have poor self-esteem, never learned how to talk to others, or they’re just angry at life. The reasons vary, but the symptoms tend to be similar.

This list, which is by no means complete, will give you a good idea of what signs you’re looking for. If you have questions, you can grab a Perfect Partner Assessment on my website and learn the 3 things that are holding you back from finding your ideal partner, and the #1 thing you can do to find him. (

See if you recognize any of these...

  • Constantly critical of others.

  • Approval seeking: Often fishes for compliments or wants to be acknowledged and recognized.

  • Everything is always about them and what they’re feeling, or what they want.

  • Never disagreeing with others (giving in to others’ opinions).

  • Always disagreeing with others (being argumentative when they don’t need to).

  • Super focused about their looks, their clothes, etc. (to a crazy degree).

  • Can’t make decisions.

  • Jealous and possessive.

  • Controlling behavior.

  • Gets very involved with you very quickly - not willing to take it slow.

  • Nothing is ever their fault.

  • Unrealistic expectations of your looks, behavior, and likes/dislikes.

  • Unpredictability.

  • Bad temper.

  • Asking you for money and not paying it back.

  • Chronic dishonesty. (We’re not talking about things like, “No, you look fine in those pants.” We’re talking about never being sure if what they say is true.)

  • Constant drama.

These are just some of the warning signs that you might be involved with a “relationship loser.” If you’d like to learn how to attract the perfect partner for you and leave the losers behind, go to my website and grab that Perfect Partner Assessment I told you about before. It’s on Grab yours before they’re all taken! See you there.


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